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Our goal here is to provide our readers with the latest information about the signs substance abuse disorder, support groups, treatment options, life in recovery, prevention & advocacy in our communities, and how to deal with the grief of a lost loved one. If you have ideas or suggestions that you wish to share with us here please use our "Contact Us" page at the very bottom of this page to email us. You can click on our Memorial Map to add your loved ones tribute to the map and then a few days later we will add them to our memorial blog.

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Erica Botley Lancour - Age: 26 - Passed: 8/15/2016

43130, Lancaster, Ohio

Their Name

Erica Botley Lancour

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

1/24/1990

Age at Time They Passed

26

Date Passed

8/15/2016

Your First & Last Name

Stephen Craig Botley Jr

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Bubbly, happy! I always said in every picture my daughter was in she had a big smile on her face.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

She went through detox numerous times at Talbot Hall , she also had a very long stint in a recovery center in Wellston Ohio called The Georgia Harris House, her coping skills, anxiety and depression always led her back to addiction to cover her pains. She was also diagnosed with mental illness which Led her back to addiction. She fought addiction hard as she wanted to live and had so much to live for including 2 children.

What made them smile?

Her family, her children especially! Her sense of good worth, she was a functioning addict and was doing so many good things in life that made her happy including working on a welding degree in school, securing her first apartment and car all on her own! Her friends from all walks of life, recovery, school and the military! She served in our United States Army as military police!

What do you miss the most about them today?

Her smile, our talks, our hugs. Her not being able to watch her children Alainia and Liam growing up!

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I truly wish I could tell her how much I love her! I was her rock through all of the addiction, in death so many of her friends have come to me to tell me how much she truly loved and cared for me!

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Mark Jack - Age: 26 - Passed: 3/27/2016

5247 Southcrest Ave, Hamburg, New York, 14075

Their Name

Mark Jack

Their Nickname

Sonshine

Birthday

3/25/1990

Age at Time They Passed

26

Date Passed

3/27/2016

Your First & Last Name

Tricia Costantino

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Mark was so funny and incredibly smart. He had a huge heart and loved his friends and family.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Mark was addicted for 8 years. Mark dabbled with almost everything and quit before starting the next drug of choice. When he started Heroin it didn't take him long to realize he couldn't "just" quit. He went to many rehabs and did many stints in jail because of illegal activity to get drugs. He made me mad and so sad because I as his mother saw his pain and couldn't make it better

What made them smile?

When others laughed, when he and his poppies would talk. When I smiled my baby smiled. Playing basketball with his friends.

What do you miss the most about them today?

Our talks and his amazing hugs!

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I was proud of you, so unbelievably proud of you Love you infinity plus 1

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Kayla Ann Dyer - Age: 22 - Passed: 10/7/2016

313 Carsley Rd, Harrison, Maine, 04040

Their Name

Kayla Ann Dyer

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

10/9/1993

Age at Time They Passed

22

Date Passed

10/7/2016

Your First & Last Name

Wendy Baker

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Friendly, helping family and friends. She was always there for anybody that she loves

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

I didn’t know she was doing it. First time

What made them smile?

Babies, children, family, her husband, parents and siblings

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss chatting with Kayla I miss her helping out with me. I miss hear stories how happy she was even when she had depression.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you

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Zach Cameron - Age: 31 - Passed: 2/23/2021

65616, Branson, Missouri

Their Name

Zach Cameron

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

2/24/1989

Age at Time They Passed

31

Date Passed

2/23/2021

Your First & Last Name

Ashley Cameron

Relationship to Loved One

Sibling

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Zach was someone special that left an impression on everybody who met him. If it wasn't those green eyes and long eye lashes then it was his personality and sense of humor that drew people to him. He was always the life of the party and made everyone around him laugh. He loved unconditionally and he considered his closest friends to be like brothers and sisters. He was uncle Zach to not just his nieces and nephews but to his friends kids as well. Zach was a proud brother, who loved and cared about us more than we deserved. He stood up to anybody to defend and protect his sisters. He was kind, caring, smart, handsome, and ridiculously funny.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

can remember the exact moment that things got bad for Zach and addiction would take over his life. He was fifteen years old, I was seventeen. I had an infant son and was getting up in the middle of the night to make his bottle when I walked past Zach's room and could see the silhouette of him sitting in the dark on his bedroom floor, crying, listening to music. He had just gotten home from the hospital where he and his then girlfriend would go with the advice of the physicians to remove their 45 day old son who was born prematurely off life support. Life for Zach after that moment was pure chaos. He would use any drug he could get his hands onto and push his limits to face many overdose scares.

What made them smile?

His son Abel

What do you miss the most about them today?

His jokes.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you so much. Please stop, dont do this. I need you so bad.

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Greg Heidbrink - Age: 48 - Passed: 3/17/2021

63349, Hawk Point, Missouri

Their Name

Greg Heidbrink

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

9/16/1972

Age at Time They Passed

48

Date Passed

3/17/2021

Your First & Last Name

Ashley Cameron

Relationship to Loved One

Sibling

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Sadly, I've never known my brother before his substance abuse.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Greg’s addiction to meth began before I was even born. He spent a majority of his adult life in prison because of it. It also caused the relationship with his two children to become estranged and ultimately take his life when he unknowlying snorted fentanyl laced meth. Greg was born to teenage parents; his dad would spend most of his life in prison and our mom would abuse and neglect him. He would grow up calling his step dad, my father, dad. My dad would proudly call him his son and was so happy to let Greg move in with him this last year to help care for him, and he was pleased to do it. Our brother Zach had died 22 days prior of an overdose and Greg was so devastated by it he didnt even attend the funeral. He stayed home and got high instead.

What made them smile?

Family.

What do you miss the most about them today?

His voice.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

Your not alone. We all love you so much and we can all get through this together.

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Paul Dunleavy Reithlingshoefer - Age: 34 - Passed: 4/9/2017

135 Conduit Street, Annapolis. MD

Their Name

Paul Dunleavy Reithlingshoefer

Their Nickname

Paulie

Birthday

10/21/1982

Age at Time They Passed

34

Date Passed

4/9/2017

Your First & Last Name

Jessie Dunleavy

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

My son, Paul, went through school in special education. He didn't have a lot of confidence and was reticent in a group situation. He was characterized by others as sweet-natured and kind and was close to his family and a few friends. Among his disabilities were a language impairment and a hand tremor, with the former slowing his processing time and the latter precluding adequate control of a pencil, both of which made school an ongoing struggle. As a teenager, on his own, he started to write poetry, most of which he didn't share with others. I believe it was his outlet for self expression. Over the years this interest grew and, thanks to his use of a laptop, his writing was legible enough to enable his creativity and his insight to shine. He was also musical -- played the guitar -- and had a wonderful sense of humor. His capacity to think exceeded the school programs he experienced and, after finishing high school at the age of 20, he was ill-prepared for suitable employment.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Paul turned to drugs in his early 20s. I believe he found they provided relief from his self doubt and his worry about future opportunities. It didn't take long for addiction to set in, and he experienced multiple programs, most of which were not appropriate for him and, in some cases, were downright destructive. He was incarcerated twice, making his already dismal employment opportunities nearly out of reach. He did have stretches of avoiding drug use, the longest of which was toward the end of his life when he had a job he loved and was able to get his first apartment, both aspects of his life that made him proud. He relapsed and failed to find the help he sought, first a program and, when that fell through, he and I tired to get Suboxone to no avail. While still midst of this quest, he died alone in his apartment.

What made them smile?

It was so easy to make him laugh. He smiled at a lot of things: triumphs of others, animals, children, a new pair of jeans, a compliment, or a plan with a friend. He had grown enough to laugh at himself which he did in good humor. His job was a source of joy which included camaraderie he'd not always had. He also loved music and derived much pleasure from it. Lastly, there was his poetry -- something he knew he was good at.

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss talking to him, hearing his ideas, or his stories about experiences he'd had. His apartment was just a few blocks from me and we did a lot together to fix it up. Sometimes he'd come over just to watch TV with me, often bringing ice cream to shore-up the chances of me going along.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I admired you tremendously and in many ways believe your resilience reenforces mine.

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Billy Cloutier - Age: 21 - Passed: 1/24/2015

2-24 Mason Rd, West Townsend, Massachusetts, 01474

Their Name

Billy Cloutier

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

2/7/1993

Age at Time They Passed

21

Date Passed

1/24/2015

Your First & Last Name

Carrie A Curry

Relationship to Loved One

Other Relative

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Most lovable and funniest kid you have ever met

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Herion was his drug of choice

What made them smile?

Their jokes.

What do you miss the most about them today?

His smile and higs

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you

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Dillon Wentz - Age: 23 - Passed: 7/7/2015

1-99 North St, Hanover, Pennsylvania, 17331

Their Name

Dillon Wentz

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

9/11/1991

Age at Time They Passed

23

Date Passed

7/7/2015

Your First & Last Name

Amanda Lentz

Relationship to Loved One

Sibling

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Dillon was very into sports! He played all sports throughout school.He especially loved his football team, the Raiders. Family was the most important thing to Dillon though, he loved being with his family!

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Dillon’s step brother took his own life and he could not find a way to deal with his emotions. This struggle led him to numb his feelings with drugs.

What made them smile?

His niece made him smile no matter what

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss his silly laugh. I miss him making everyone around him laugh

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you so much

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Sean Michael yates - Age: 20 - Passed: 5/21/2013

101-199 N East St, Linden, Michigan, 48451

Their Name

Sean Michael yates

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

5/26/1992

Age at Time They Passed

20

Date Passed

5/21/2013

Your First & Last Name

Lisa Yates

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Fun, popular, such a great son very athletic happy go lucky.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

He didn't think he had a problem. He was in and out of hospitals for over dosing. He loved his dope but toward the end of his life I think he was tired of that life and admitted he had a problem. He worked but he struggled getting up everyday to get there and it was wearing him out.

What made them smile?

Being with friends and family. Sadly his drugs made him smile too.

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss his smile and laugh and his presence. He started being more like his old self toward the end of his life.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

How much I miss you and look forward to seeing you in heaven.

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Curt Lukens - Age: 34 - Passed: 12/7/2014

2311-2345 2nd St, Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio, 44221

Their Name

Curt Lukens

Their Nickname

Diggs

Birthday

3/27/1980

Age at Time They Passed

34

Date Passed

12/7/2014

Your First & Last Name

Debbie Lukens

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Curt sang in a band, always loved painting, collecting superhero items and comic books, was a “ foodie” ... was passionate about his favorite foods, his family and his dog. He was witty, friendly, loving.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Curt was employed in a place where illegal drugs were readily available. He and some friends got interested and soon were unable to break free. On many occasions during a ten year struggle, he would make the decision to be clean and sober. He would suffer thru violent bouts of pain, trembling, vomiting... he would end up homeless, sold off his personal possessions in order to support his habit. He would come home to us for a good meal... some cigarettes... dog food...but was never given cash. He had the love of a woman, but the love of his life left when his habit began. When he decided for the last time that he had had enough, he began eating and drinking beer. This went on for 6 months. He gained 60 lbs. Then one day when he was angry with me , he had sprained his ankle. I was only getting information second hand, since he would not answer my texts. He went seeking drugs that one last time. He was found lifeless on the floor of his girlfriend’s garage.

What made them smile?

His dog, his family, being able to be the life of the party, snd his own jokes!

What do you miss the most about them today?

There is not enough room for me to write all that i miss about my boy. His voice, his smile, his caring hugs, his wit, his knowledge of things I had no idea he even cared about! And the list goes on..

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I need him to know how much his life mattered and how badly our hearts are hurting since he left us. He left this world angry with me , and I must deal with this guilt on top of the horrendous grief!

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Kyle B Furney - Age: 30 - Passed: 3/9/2014

501-599 Harris Ave, Palmetto, Georgia, 30268

Their Name

Kyle B Furney

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

5/17/1983

Age at Time They Passed

30

Date Passed

3/9/2014

Your First & Last Name

Carolyn Furney

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Kyle was would light up a room when he walked in. He never met a stranger. Full of life. Always wanted everyone to be happy. He was a loving son, brother, uncle and father. Being a father was what he lived for. He loved his daughter more that anything in the world.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

I think Kyle’s troubles started when his grand mother came to live with us. She had Dementia. Kyle’s father was diagnosed with severe COPD around the same time. When I think back he was struggling with depression. Over time drugs and alcohol I think was his way of escaping. He was real good at hiding what he was doing.

What made them smile?

His baby girl. Seeing her was the best thing in his life.

What do you miss the most about them today?

His smile and laughter.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I forgive you and I love you.

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Bridget Ford - Age: 26 - Passed: 10/20/2011

377-381 Dudley Rd, Ft Mitchell, Kentucky, 41017

Their Name

Bridget Ford

Their Nickname

Aunt B

Birthday

7/6/1985

Age at Time They Passed

26

Date Passed

10/20/2011

Your First & Last Name

Amanda Hill

Relationship to Loved One

Sibling

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Happy Fun loving, Hilarious, determined

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

My sister started with drinking then it went to pill use then heroin. She went to rehab twice and jail multiple times before she lost her battle.

What made them smile?

family and friends

What do you miss the most about them today?

everything! Mostly her smile, calling her to chat or gossip. I miss her every single day!

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you more then life and you can do this!

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TYLER COOK - Age: 25 - Passed: 11/13/2013

509-553 W 5th St, Connersville, Indiana, 47331

Their Name

TYLER COOK

Their Nickname

TY-MAN

Birthday

4/16/1988

Age at Time They Passed

25

Date Passed

11/13/2013

Your First & Last Name

AMY R COOK

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

TYLER WAS AN AWESOME KID WITH A HUGE HEART, HE LOVED SCHOOL AND SPORTS AND NEVER COMPLAINED ABOUT ANYTHING. HE WAS A LISTENER FOR ANYONE AND NEVE JUDGED.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

STARTED OUT WITH ALCOHOL IN HIGH SCHOOL, THEN STARTED TAKING BENZO'S AND OPIATES. SOMEONE AT HIS JOB INTRODUCED HIM TO HERION. HE HAD BEEN CLEAN A YEAR AT THE TIME OF HIS DEATH. WAS WORKING 60 HOURS A WEEK AND ATTENDING 3 MEETINGS PER WEEK.

What made them smile?

FAMILY

What do you miss the most about them today?

TYLER WAS NOT ONLY MY SON BUT MY BEST FRIEND. WE WERE ESPECIALLY CLOSE AND ALWAYS DONE THINGS TOGETHER.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I'M SORRY I COULDN'T SAVE YOU...

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Jonathan Wilson - Age: 25 - Passed: 11/2/2015

18030-18046 Webster Rd, Craigsville, West Virginia, 26205

Their Name

Jonathan Wilson

Their Nickname

Jono5000

Birthday

8/5/1990

Age at Time They Passed

25

Date Passed

11/2/2015

Your First & Last Name

Kimberly & Bruce Duncan

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Craigsville,Wv Lived there his whole life. JON was such a happy creative child. He loved music it was his passion, he wrote songs, sang and played in a band. He loved his little Brother they got along well. Jon succeeded at anything he tried, he was advanced for his age. He was a beautiful person with the biggest gorgeous smile.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Jon started abusing opiates at age 15 he started out with Marijuana and drinking he biological dad sadly contributed to his addiction, he said he was sad and never got in trouble and thought if he done something bad it would get his dad's attention and he would love him, he said his dad never would tell him he loved him or give him a hug and he wanted what other dads gave their sons. But he was hooked and it was too late he went to rehab two months only to get out on his 18th bday and his dad bought him alcohol and it started all over again.

What made them smile?

Music made Jon smile, when Jon and me (mom) would go for drives and walk together we would laugh and have such a great time. Jon loved animals they gave him comfort, and he always smiled when I gave him hugs and told him how much I loved him and how proud I was of him. He was an excellent sportsmen and skateboarder, played about any instrument and playing his acoustic guitar gave him peace and made him smile, he would always sing and look up to the heavens.

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss everything about him, I miss hearing him come through the door and saying mom will you cook me some food, I miss his calls and late night texts just to say I love you mom or I love yah'more. I miss hearing him sing I miss hearing his guitar playing, I miss hearing him playing Xbox live and yelling at the game l0l, I miss him and his brother being together and hanging out, his little brother looked up to him and took it hard when he passed, mostly I miss his bear hugs he would give me and the kiss on the cheek. He was a good kid with a beautiful soul he is missed so so much.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I would tell him how much he was loved and their is more out there than having to depend on substances. I would have begged him to stay home and not left that day. But mostly how much I love him and I was proud of him.

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Matthew Cassagio - Age: 19 - Passed: 7/9/2014

1729 E 3rd Ave, Bay Shore, New York, 11706

Their Name

Matthew Cassagio

Their Nickname

Matt

Birthday

7/9/1995

Age at Time They Passed

19

Date Passed

7/9/2014

Your First & Last Name

Ellen Weinstein

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Matthew was a very loving caring youngest child of 4 . Growing up with educational and medical disabilities , Matt struggled to keep up. He was a football player from 5th grade to 12th. Matthew has 3 older sisters who miss him very much .

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

I didn’t know enough .

What made them smile?

Friends , football, handball.. his puppy Maggie. Good good ????

What do you miss the most about them today?

His wide arms hug . Quiet talks , both honest and painful but always funny

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

Matthew, You are missed every moment of my days .. your sisters and I remember you with deep love and live with the pain of your absence

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Dennis Bristow - Age: 26 - Passed: 2/2/2013

100-198 S Bridge St, Belding, Michigan, 48809

Their Name

Dennis Bristow

Their Nickname

Denny

Birthday

8/2/1986

Age at Time They Passed

26

Date Passed

2/2/2013

Your First & Last Name

Sherri Boster

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Adventurous and loving.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

He got addicted to oxytocin in high school. And later turned to heroin for the same affect but cheaper.

What made them smile?

Hunting and riding ATV’s with his brother Randy

What do you miss the most about them today?

I miss his humor, smile and hugs.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I hope you know how very much I love you

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Aaron Peter Crook - Age: 23 - Passed: 9/10/2012

22000-22004 Saticoy St, Canoga Park, California, 91303

Their Name

Aaron Peter Crook

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

8/5/1989

Age at Time They Passed

23

Date Passed

9/10/2012

Your First & Last Name

Alison Crook

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

Aaron was born in Johannesburg South Africa and we moved to USA when he was 4 years old. He was a happy child,, could amuse himself for ours,he made friends easily and played a number of sports. He was a very intelligent , incredibly handsome young man with olive complexion and a beautiful smile.He had a great sense of humor and contagious laugh.He liked to dress the part and nearly always wore a baseball cap.He was a deep thinker but he worried about the future a lot. He loved animals, he had 2 tanks of tropical fish and bred African fresh water fish.. He had compassion for people especially for those with physical or mental disabilities and when he was young it would make him sad. He loved watching history and Nat Geo channels.On the outside he appeared to be happy, social confident, his friends said he joked a lot but he said he didn't feel that inside, he put on a brave face. He was a brilliant problem solver.Through his addiction he graduate high school & Assoc degree.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

Aaron started smoking pot in 8th grade leading to cocaine ,pills by 18 he was an IV heroin user,working but also dealing to support his habit. Truancy, missing for days at a time, arrests for possession ,a short spell in Juvenile Hall and jail when he was 19 . Late night phone calls either from police or Aaron needing help. A narrow escape from a stab wound during a deal that went wrong, Counselling, outpatient & inpatient rehab.A spinal fusion at age 19 due to a misdiagnosed spinal fracture from a fall/car accident at age 14/15, this was a definitive factor in his narcotic addiction the pain never resolving. Through all this family chaos, angry words we can never take back but also unconditional love, never giving up on him.Aaron got sober at 22, best we had ever seen him on his 23rd birthday he was glowing. A month later the call every addicts mother dreads- he'd been found dead of a heroin overdose.Aaron told me that the worst day of his life was the day he started using heroin.

What made them smile?

Messing around with his friends, silly family stuff, our pets, his tropical fish, Twix and M&Ms & ice cream and favorite films and TV shows.

What do you miss the most about them today?

His smile that showed off his dimples,the way his eyes twinkled, his laugh, his sense of humor and his strong hugs.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

We love you so very much and we are so sorry we could not save you

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Joshua and Amber Morgan - Age: 21 & 18 - Passed: 9/11/2010

1242-1298 22nd St, Granite City, Illinois, 62040

Their Name

Joshua and Amber Morgan

Their Nickname

No content available.

Birthday

3/23/1989

Age at Time They Passed

21 & 18

Date Passed

9/11/2010

Your First & Last Name

Ruth Scott

Relationship to Loved One

Other Relative

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

They were both happy and living life. They had just had a baby girl 5 months before and they were so excited being parents

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

I never even knew they were using. I don't think it was an addiction I know it was just a bad batch that took them both.

What made them smile?

Their baby girl Lilly

What do you miss the most about them today?

He was my 2nd son he was my goofball and he just knew how to make everyone smile. It didn't seem like I really knew her they had only been together a short time but I loved her none the less. After they passed I lost my granddaughter to adoption and she was taken to Florida far away from us.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you very much and it breaks my heart everyday that your not here

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Vanessa Abbott - Age: 24 - Passed: 1/31/2015

433-499 W McGee St, Greensboro, North Carolina, 27401

Their Name

Vanessa Abbott

Their Nickname

Nessie

Birthday

6/23/1990

Age at Time They Passed

24

Date Passed

1/31/2015

Your First & Last Name

Randy Abbott

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

If a picture is worth a thousand words, then this one could be a novel. It would be a book about a life of love for everyone and everything, it would be about a life of truly believing that all people deserved to be treated with dignity and respect no matter what. Vanessa believed that everyone has a loving, caring side just waiting to get out. Not only did she love everyone and everything, mostly they loved her back, though she didn’t always see it. I sometimes think she could have picked up a rattlesnake and it would have instantly been her friend. Then there was her smile. I don’t think anyone would deny that when Vanessa was among friends she was always smiling and making others happy. She was only 4’11” but she had the biggest heart of anyone I have ever known. That was where her struggles began.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

As loving and caring as Vanessa was she also felt things very deeply. If she saw someone hurting she found herself hurting as well. She could not understand the things in the world that seems o evil. When she loved and did not feel the love coming back it always affected her deeply. Vanessa began to deal with some emotional and issues with depression in High School. As a way to deal with this, she began to self-medicate. That self-medicating began with smoking marijuana, then drinking, then abusing prescriptions that she had been given. It grew worse from there.

What made them smile?

See others being happy, animals, doing things outdoors with friends, being in nature, her favorite candy as a surprise, birthdays, and holidays. Vanessa was rarely without a smile, at least on the outside.

What do you miss the most about them today?

Her bear hugs and her smile. Actually everything!

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

the same thing we had said to her often! You are an amazing person, I love you and I am proud of you. Keep fighting!

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Jonathan Class - Age: 24 - Passed: 4/5/2015

1701-1717 W Jarrettsville Rd, Jarrettsville, Maryland, 21084

Their Name

Jonathan Class

Their Nickname

Jonny

Birthday

12/27/1990

Age at Time They Passed

24

Date Passed

4/5/2015

Your First & Last Name

Patricia Class

Relationship to Loved One

Parent (Biological, foster,step)

Tell us what they were like before they developed a substance use disorder*

He was a funny, loving son, brother and friend. He loved being outside skateboarding, swimming in the pool or having fun with friends.

Tell us about their struggles with substance use disorder

He struggled with drugs and alcohol from the time he was 15. He got into trouble with law and his father passed away suddenly from a heart attack. Things just got worse after that. He went into many rehabs but as soon as he was released it wasn’t long before he was back to doing drugs again.

What made them smile?

Being with family and friends.

What do you miss the most about them today?

His loving ways.

If you had a chance to say one more thing to today what would it be?

I love you so much and just wish you had given things a chance and to actually meet your daughter.

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